It is totally okay to feel afraid and nervous. After all, settling down with your significant other is a serious decision that should be given enough time and consideration. The question though, at what point you can know that your feelings are indicating something more from your relationship?
As a matter of fact, there are telltale signs that you can use that you aren’t ready just yet to settle down and start a new chapter in your life.
One of the most notable reasons is the fact that you dread the idea of marriage. If just the thought of settling down with your boyfriend/girlfriend or at least, being with the same person for the next 5 or 10 years is sending shivers to your spine, then you may not just be ready yet.
You are Keeping Secrets
An obvious sign that you are not ready to be married is if you’re keeping secrets from your significant other. These include how and whom you’re spending your time with, info about your personal finances or frequent abuse of alcohol or other vices.
Divorce isn’t a much of a Problem
Being married with this kind of attitude is a clear statement that you are not ready for any commitment.